Reports suggested that the woman was accused in a case. things will always get better especially if you change the way you live. 'Her movements around the station, going from one side of the station to the other, going down to the station and back up, was an unusual pattern of behaviour. herefornow - Taking time to put one's affairs in order first and considering how to end it all without harming others are both ways for the suicidal person to put their problems in perspective, see things in a different light and at the very least give themselves a chance to rethink what they're about to do. How on earth her family have to pay ? Its a mistake. That wouldn't be selfish, it would be malevolent. Yeah, she was a big fail, wasn't she? Smorkian; FOR GODS SAKE!!! If you really think about it (which you CAN do if you really try) I don't believe that she went down onto the platform, lined up the shot like a pool player, made sure there were sufficient people in the shop, then jumped infront of the train but if your just Trolling, keep up the good work. A tragedy and a waste of a life. Thoughtless, yes. Kiosk and bystanders apparently unhurt. We are no longer accepting comments on this article. Several witnesses told police they saw the woman jump from the edge of the platform and get hit by the train around 5:20 p.m., an NYPD spokeswoman said. When you are in a state of mind that jumping in front of a train is the best solution to your problems, you are in a very dark place indeed, and rational thought would be a struggle I'm guessing. It was found later from other CCTV camera rec. alot of people do this to make other people suffer & have regret. The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . & yes some people can't help being poor, but Geez being poor is better than being Dead its a NO Brainer. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those injuries were from bone fragments or other parts that came off from the impact. It's very sad. Detective Sergeant Simon Rees told the inquest that a financial investigator had examined Ms Redmonds circumstances prior to her death. She ended her own life. The comments below have been moderated in advance. Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC said: Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform and is then struck by the train.. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. I bow to those with deep enough compassion. Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. I was going to call the mental health service team but she said she did not want them to visit, she said they interfered with her marriage and her pregnancy,' he said. If you must kill yourself, put your affairs in order first and choose a method that doesn't leave a gory mess. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. Felicia Garcia, 15, was reportedly tormented by her peers at Tottenville High School, who teased her about sexual encounters with football players, police sources told the New York Daily News. There has to be a point where we can finally stop writing about the lack of awareness of and help for the mentally ill or emotionally unstable in Japan because someone with enough influence actually decided to do something about it for once. A few reasons, I would imagine, although of course I'm also at a loss as to why people feel the need to off themselves. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Copyright 2023 Nexstar Media Inc. All rights reserved. while tragic, her act delayed thousands of people. Your lack of compassion for someone who is obviously driven to the end of her wits psychologically for reasons none of us is privy to is staggering. We had a discussion about having another child, I told her we had two wonderful children and I did not feel it was necessary to have a third and I thought she agreed,' the heartbroken husband said. Her life ,her decision, her responsibilityshe is (or was) an adult with full responsibility and legal rights for goodness sake! Please report any comments that break our rules. I think most people sadly have had some kind of contact with mental illness and/or suicide by the time they reach "our age". I read all your posts and I think you all missed something. Take the quiz: How well do you know LIV Golf? I wonder what happened ? to seek help? Bad decision on her part. She is at ease with mum, she is very patient, she follows mum and allows herself to be picked up.'. As for the deceased person, as we do not know anything about her, it is a little early to judge her motives. In a moving tribute, her husband JudeYabani told an inquest: 'I will never regret having her in my life.'. the point is that he couldn't sleep for a couple of days and said he couldn't get the sound of the train hitting the guy's head out of his mind..he still sometimes speaks about it. 'After the birth of our second child, she relapsed and was admitted to hospital again. There are hundreds of ways you can kill yourself without involving the public. At 3:17 p.m., at the Broadway and West 96th Street subway station, an unidentified woman jumped in front of a southbound 3 train in an apparent suicide, an NYPD spokesperson told WSR. They charge millions of yen for stoppages, extra work, etc The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman.Please show her and her family some respect. papigiulio: "why do people consistently suicide by jumping in front of a train? I've been close enough to the edge that I remember feeling nothing but fear, just being scared to hell, and debilitating sadness. Southbound 2 and 3 trains are running local from 96th Street to Times Square-42nd Street. Ms Redmond then brought Melsadie back over the gate to the public area of the platform, before returning up the stairs to the bridge over the platforms. Of course, when you have spiralled into the pit of depression and all capability for rational thought has gone, it is not possible to see it that way. 2-8-16 Higashi-Kanda 'Selfish' is a description, not a judgement. As for the act being selfish - of course it is. Police had few immediate details, but said the person may have jumped in front of the subway. 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The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly killing her. Japan According to CCTV footage, she was waiting for the train's arrival and at 3 pm, she jumped in front of a running train. Having said that I still agree that public suicide is not and should not be acceptable. I personally think the whole 'ganbare' and 'I must not make a scene' are partially to blame. Perhaps some high profile celebrities talking about their mental health issues/treatment? 1. There is a good deal of toing and froing.. "It's a shame that because of her actions others were hurt, and with the Japanese being as they are, I doubt as well that others were traumatized by this woman's actions as well.". the person was sick of mind. What a waste! Girl, 2, looks star-struck as she presents Kate with a gift of Daffodils for St David's A bargain fit for a king: Grade II-listed manor house complete with barn and gatehouse is listed at auction Who said black and white pics were flattering! Was she a member of this community? The posts that are concerned about the effect on others (the people who were injured, the people who had to witness what happened, the families that have to cope with the aftermath, etc - No, I don't think expressing concern for those people is selfish. Calls are free and confidential. Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour., The coroner said: At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. Northbound 5 trains are running local from Third Avenue-149th Street to 180th Street. British Summer Time begins in March but do you wind your watch forward Britain braces for brutal -9C Arctic snap: Met Office warns more snow and ice could lash the country next Could Northern Ireland become the UK's Silicon Valley? Mr Wade asked the officer: 'I think your financial investigator looked at whether she had made a voluntary arrangement in terms of indebtedness through court proceedings. By doing so, you will also receive an email inviting you to receive our news alerts. The service is available 24 hours a day for people who are experiencing feelings of distress or despair, including those which may lead to suicide. It seems like it is getting worse. Call the Samaritans on 116 123 or email them atjo@samaritans.org. Police are currently trying to identify the deceased. 'On the day she had received news that some of her debt burdens had been relieved, if she had entered into a payment agreement which she did, and she was supposed to have started a new employment so her financial situation was potentially going to change.'. To be honest I think this choice of suicide is partly due to the 'normalcy' - it is a very common way that the next person might follow the same way regardless of why or whoever else gets pulled into it, but also it could be like giving a middle finger or a big **** all you to society, because it was society that let the person down?? EXCLUSIVE: Lanzarote sticks to its guns and insists it WILL limit tourists and move away from relying on Nearly half of British viewers believe ethnic minorities and LGBT communities are over-represented on TV, Is YOUR wood burner at risk? Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. So yes, prevention starts in the early years. While it is a sad event, the method in which she did was selfish to say the least. There is something seriously wrong with a lot of peoples thinking here and i think you need to add a bit of humanity and empathy to your souls. Who "died" and made you the queen of Japanese suicide ethics/morality? A young mother who was behind on her rent and bills gathered her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped in front of a train, an inquest has heard. No counseling available in this country? I have contemplated running away from seemingly insurmountable life problems through death at least twice in my lifetime. The BTP officer said that the mother and daughter again spent time walking from platform to platform before climbing the footbridge, where Melsadie was seen looking 'distressed' and was picked up by Ms Redmond. ', 'I did not think she was suffering a relapse at the time although it did not occur to me.